Sunday, March 13, 2011

FACEBOOK: Cause of divorce?

Recently my wife said that she has heard that FACEBOOK is responsible for 1 out of 5 divorces. She added that young married couples (we know one) are swearing off Facebook to preserve their marriages.

I said really? - If their marriages are that weak or if they are themselves THAT weak, than the marriage is doomed already, even without Facebook.

I didn’t think about it anymore until I ran into an article in the Wall Street Journal that addressed the issue. The article was titled “Irreconcilable Claim: Facebook Causes 1 in 5 Divorces” by Carl Bialik, The Numbers Guy, March 12, 2011.

Bialik states that there is very little data on the causes of divorce but statistics do show that marriage and divorce rates have dropped as internet usage has risen.

As to the “rumor” that Facebook is responsible for 1 out of 5 divorces; it can be traced to an on-line divorce service provider (Divorce-on-Line). The owner of the site noticed that the word “Facebook” appeared in 989 of the company’s 5,000 divorce petitions so he issued a news release stating that “Facebook is bad for your marriage”.

Later, the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, announced that their members have seen an “increase” in cases that used “evidence” from social-networking. Given the phenomenal growth of Facebook, it makes perfect sense.

Bialik then points to a media relations type guy at Loyola University who in promoting a psychologist’s expertise on relationships and social media at Loyola, inadvertently repeated the 1 in 5 rumor he found online. When he realized that this was just a rumor and unsubstantiated, he tried to alert all that received his erroneous press release but alas, the word was sent out into the world and could not be brought back.

Goes to show you that the internet is fast and in some cases can start rumors or propagate untruths…use common sense.




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